When my Aunt Shari and Uncle Larry gifted me Getting Good at Being You by Lauren Alaina for Christmas in 2021, I had no idea how much this book would resonate with me, even years later. Inside the cover, Aunt Shari wrote a heartfelt note:
Her words reminded me that life’s journey, with all its twists and turns, is something to be embraced. Here are some of the best quotes from the book that have inspired me to navigate my 30s with grace, humor, and a positive outlook.
One of the first lessons that struck me was the idea that “it’s okay to not be okay.” Life inevitably throws challenges our way, but it’s crucial to find the strength to move forward, even if it’s just one small step at a time. Lauren emphasizes that our worth isn’t determined by how others see us but by how we see ourselves. This is particularly empowering in a world that often judges based on appearances and external achievements.
The book also encourages us to “embrace the journey, not just the destination.” Life is a series of moments, and appreciating every step, rather than just focusing on the end goal, is essential. Authenticity, Lauren reminds us, is where true beauty lies, not in the illusion of perfection. This perspective is refreshing and liberating, especially in today’s society that is obsessed with flawless images.
Lauren’s affirmation that “you are stronger than you think, braver than you believe, and more beautiful than you imagine” has been a constant source of motivation. It’s a powerful reminder of our often underestimated potential and worth. Along similar lines, she reassures us that “failures are not the end; they are just the beginning of something new.” Viewing setbacks as opportunities for growth transforms them into valuable life lessons.
In the age of social media, it’s easy to fall into the comparison trap. Lauren wisely advises against comparing our behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel. Social media often showcases the best moments of people’s lives, creating an illusion that everyone else is living a perfect life. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. However, Lauren emphasizes that everyone’s journey is unique. We all face our own struggles and triumphs, and it’s important to remember that what we see online is not the full picture. This reminder encourages us to focus on our own path and to appreciate our own progress without the pressure of comparison.
Healing, Lauren notes, takes time but is worth every second. In a world that often demands instant results, it’s important to remember that personal growth and recovery are processes that require patience and persistence. Trusting in this process can be challenging, especially when we feel the pressure to have everything figured out. However, it’s important to be patient with ourselves and to trust that, in time, we will heal and grow stronger from our experiences.
The book also highlights the importance of surrounding ourselves with people who lift us higher. Our social circles have a significant impact on our well-being, and positive, supportive relationships can make all the difference. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. This highlights the power of being open and honest about our feelings.
Finding joy in the little things, Lauren suggests, can add up to big happiness. Appreciating small, everyday moments can lead to a more fulfilling life. She also reminds us to own our unique journey with pride, as every person’s path is different and special in its own way. The only person we should strive to be better than is who we were yesterday, focusing on personal growth rather than competing with others.
These lessons from Getting Good at Being You have been invaluable as I navigate the ups and downs of my 30s. Aunt Shari’s note, paired with Lauren Alaina’s wisdom, has reminded me that it’s all about the journey. So, here’s to embracing our “holy hot mess” of a life with open arms. Let’s chase after who we are meant to be, run toward knowing ourselves, find our people, and accomplish our dreams. After all, life is too short to take too seriously— just make sure to laugh along the way, especially when you trip over your own feet in the process. Cheers to being wonderfully, authentically, hilariously you!
Now I need to read the book— never toooooo old
I love this book review. The same can be said for every decade of life. I have a little over one year left in my current 6th decade and I am looking forward to embracing my 7th. I may get this book for gifts to my younger friends and mentees.
Love ya’
Therese, the original